Worst thing said by a minister.

When my father died, my wife insisted in having one of our church's clergy-persons visit. He was not my choice, but he's the one who turned up.

And what did I get? A lesson on the Kubler-Ross 'stages of grief'. Nothing like what I wanted, nothing to do with scripture, nothing to do with the life of faith.

I was disgusted, disappointed, upset by it and disenchanted.