From time to time I've though about this, particularly after someone else's funeral.
So, here lie my thoughts!
1. Book of Common Prayer order please.
There's a sort of ecclesiastical romance to this: I think it ties one to the great tradition of the faith gathering together over the centuries.
2. Not too much talking.
I don't want people trooping up to the lectern to say what a fine fellow I was. I wasn't; thus I rely on Our Lord in faith for his renewal of my spirit by His indwelling Spirit. As might you!
However, if someone (only one person) must do a eulogy make it short and check with my wife, if not available, my son, if not available my brother, if not available either of his sons. If none of these are around it'll fall to my and my wife's god-daughter (she knows who she is).
There should be a short address by the celebrant: make it about our hope in Christ by his victory over death and his New Creation whence we are adopted as his sons bodily renewed. Start with the last lines of the Apostles Creed, perhaps.
If others want to natter about me, make time for it at the refreshments following.
3. Music
Welcoming music while congregation arrives and sits
Beethoven's Sonata No. 8 (if no pianist Barenboim has a nice recording of it -- slow fade-in)
Prelude/processional as celebrants assemble and head for positions
Bach Toccata and Fugue in D Minor
Hymns I'd like sung are, in this order:
1. To God be the Glory.
2. Be thou my Vision.
3. How Great thou Art.
When the Lord's Prayer is to be said use David Fanshawe's setting and recording from "African Sanctus". Must be played very loudly.
And, if I get a fourth, or as the congregational recessional
4. Praise to the Lord the Almighty.
Please print all the hymns' lyrics and my notes, below, to distribute.
For the exit of the casket
Widor's Toccata from 5th Symphony (fast fade-in)
When this is complete and after the recessional
Fanshawe's Sanctus from African Sanctus. (N does not like this, so maybe not if he really doesn't want it. In this case play as people assemble for refreshments and prior to any short speeches that are planned or invited).
4. My notes to the program
I was encouraged into Beethoven by Bob Smith, the minister of my church when about 15, Bob was only 27 at the time and a lively and earnest but very affable and good humored man. I admired Bob and had kept in touch with him over many decades.
My father also liked his work (Beethoven's not Smith's) and my parents gave me one Christmas the 3rd Symphony. I was moved to tears I was so touched and thrilled.
This work brings you to, I hope, a quiet and somewhat expectant mood. The funeral of a Christian while full of grief is more than tinged with the deep hope of the resurrection of the body and the life of the world to come as the Apostle's Creed reminds us.
Bach Toccata and Fugue in D Minor
This became a favourite in my early 20s. A magnificent exultant work that strikes deep emotional, and perhaps spiritual chords in me. I say this mindful of Bach's deep faith in our Saviour which of course must infuse his creative work.
Conclude after the big chord at the end of the first figure (about 30 seconds in) or fade out at that point.
1. To God be the Glory.
A wonderful hymn by Fanny Crosby, a blind English writer. As all these hymns, it comes from wonderful childhood memories of attending church gatherings with my maternal grandparents, cousins and their parents and my own parents along with my brother.
The hymn tells of the great rescue of God in Christ of us from our alienation from him that results in death. The hymn's rejoicing is the only fitting response to the wonder and joy of his victory over our final burden.
2. Be thou my Vision.
This was written in the 8th century in Ireland, then a bastion of Christian faith and the base for its propagation Eastwards. It's theme is the only vision worth our attention: life eternal in our Father's New Creation we remade to share the image and presence of Our Lord, world without end.
3. How Great thou Art.
Written by Carl Boberg (1859–1940). British missionary Stuart K. Hine
heard the song in Ukraine in the 1930s, translated it into English, and
added verses based on his experiences in the Carpathian Mountains and
the testimony of local believers. God's greatness is in all that he created and has redeemed to share in his revitalizing New Creation,
The song was recorded by Elvis Presley, Just in case you wanted to know that.
My favourite version is by the Bonner Family (only, the lyric is "works" not "worlds"). Needs to be played extremely loudly! The BBC did one as well.
Hang onto every word of the song! There is also a touching version by an African youth choir that's worth listening to.
Lord's Prayer David Fanshawe's setting and recording from African Sanctus. Must be played very loudly.
There are more settings of the Lord's Prayer than there are sailors in a Kings Cross pub. Fanshawe's contribution gathers together both the quiet humility the prayer engenders and its startling but usually under-done climax.
I bought the album with this recording after hearing Fanshawe interviewed on ABC radio, then "2FC". I must have been 22 or 23. I played it obsessively on my newly purchased hi-fi equipment driving my parents crazy I suspect. Fanshawe's creative rationale and astonishing handling of the musical forms engulfed every fibre of my heart in delight. Enjoy.
4. Praise to the Lord the Almighty.
I hope there is time for this to be sung as it is the most wonderful hymn here in my estimation. It is full of irrepressible Christian joy.
Written by German Reformed theologian and hymn writer Joachim Neander (1650–1680). Published in 1680, it is a classic hymn of praise based on
Psalms 103 and 150, with the English translation by Catherine
Winkworth published in 1863. Always a great sing despite my theological differences with Neander's Reformed position on salvation!
Widor's Toccata from 5th Symphony (fast fade-in)
This magnificent work is a book-end to the Bach we opened with. It is both serious and energetic with a heavy dominating bass beneath the driving trills of the upper register. But for this moment in the funeral?
It was the recessional at my first graduation ceremony. As if joyfully and seriously, confidently yet thoughtfully moving to life's next wonderful phase.
And so is represented here in anticipation of the life of the world to come. Resolved, Blessed, Enlivened without end in the light of our loving Creator. And a fond farewell to those I love and have loved. Literally until, I trust, we meet again. Be full of prayer and may the grace of our Lord, the fellowship of the Holy Spirit and the Joy of our great Father in Heaven be ever with you.
Fanshawe's Sanctus
from African Sanctus.
Fanshawe again. An acquired taste for some and his mix of African war songs and liturgical words may be hard to swallow for you. For me the Sanctus washes through the African drums with enthusiasm and unremitting power as Our Lord does in destroying evil, the consummation of which we eagerly await.
I was drawn to it in part by our family's South African heritage, a great grandfather having lived there after leaving France. My grandmother always returned from her trips home with African mementos and books which fascinated me. A small hand carved giraffe was my favorite but I had not the wit to hang onto it!
And for your own edification: There's no God like Jehovah (Yahweh)